Secret Garden

There is something about working in the garden that nurtures the spirit,gives a sense of peace and contentment.

I have the great privilege of owning a garden in a city with the highest density of population.I don’t think one ever owns a garden ,I think the garden owns the gardener!

This garden evolved over twenty years. I divided it into garden rooms that serve different purpose or use. There is a large covered area furnished with antique French wrought furniture and lovely cushions. There is a Teepee in a corner that I call my Sacred Space where I do my meditation.I even went on a silent retreat in the middle of winter,sleeping and eating in the garden for three nights and four days.It rained most nights and and it was absolutely freezing! I could have gone inside the house but I chose to stay out thinking of the homeless people who didn’t have any choice. It is a humbling experience.

I designed and created a memorial corner with a fountain in memory of my mother who loved sitting in the little tea-house in the opposite corner. It is a wonderful place for contemplation and reflection. I feel close to her whenever I take some time to sit there.I planted different types of bulbs that flower so beautifully.Since my mother was buried overseas, this place serves as chance for me to offer flowers in remembrance of her birthday and death anniversary.

There is a mural on one wall depicting a pond surrounded by trees which gives the place greater depth and serenity.

In the middle of the garden is a circular area devoted to herbs and fruit bearing trees. There are also roses that provide companion for the herbs.This area serves as my mandala for my walking meditation.

It is such a rewarding experience seeing new growth and beautiful blooms appearing in spring as well as the dying back  in autumn. The eternal cycle of life and death,beauty and decay is maintained.

Although not quite self-sufficient yet,I have planted so many fruit trees-lemon,mandarin,guava,mango,fig-that I know that it will just be a few more years and I’ll be able to share my harvests. There is nothing like the joy of giving produce from ones own garden.

May not be carbon neutral yet but I am on my way!The water restriction made me decide to install an outdoor bath and shower(Yes!My garden is very private,surrounded by high walls!Should really be named Walled Garden.)to be able to use the grey water for the garden.There is nothing like having a lovely hot bath under the stars.

Even the middle of my driveway has been planted with strawberries. I got sick of pulling the weeds growing in the decorative red pebbles. If weeds could grow,why not strawberries? Voila! The strawberries are thriving and giving tasty fruits.

It is such a relaxing and rewarding experience working in the garden. The best part is being able to share it with friends.

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